HUGE FLIRT! any tips??

lol this guy i like is a HUGE HUGEEE flirt.

and he alwayss flirts with people. He's in my math class. And we dont sit anywhere near each other. he's the funny type, like he would say mean things, but not to be mean, but kinda flirtyish. hes a bit conceited, and acts like he's so smart, but he's kinda not. lol..

he's always tellin me stuff like " omgshh, ur alwayss late to class, like wats ur problem", lol things like that

umm any flirting tips?? any advice u can give me?? wat can i say back to him next time he says something like that??

thanx %26lt;33

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just do the same thing. Be catty but cute. If he says, 'why are you always so late? gosh!' you can say "well [dave] i wanna look extra cute for you," in a very sarcastic way, but laugh to yourself too and be goofy about it. Or you can be like, "how dare you question me?" but make sure you show you're just joking. I think as long as you joke back, return the teasing, you'll be fine.

Good luck, I really wanna hear a followup

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"I was late because I was thinking 'That guy is going to ask me why I was late and I need to think of something witty to say back.' Then I decided that you were a loser, so who cares?" Then wink at him so he knows you are not serious.
mind your own damn business. it doesn't sound like he is being flirty, it sounds like he is a punk.
say ur mom it will make him laugh
"Gas. You want me to prove it?"
just come up with something funny. im not the really funny person but just be lyk maybe why were you early. or something
maybe I like to get your attention why I am late??? something snappy to his response playing back with him.....maybe only way I can get you to notice me? Maybe if you were late sometime you could walk me to class? wink...wink....Just something letting him know you are interested!!!
umm...guys like that are a waste of time....if you want to date him you should just date him, but he seems like a guy who is just gonna be a big waste of time.
God, it sounds like a Jesse I know. He's so annoying.
First, he needs to start talking like a man, not like a girl. Then you should flirt back. Giggle. Guys love the giggle.

I flirt too much?

i flirt with alot of guys i know...they all say i flirt too much...i even flirt with guys with gfs...how do i stop?

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If you tick off a girl enough from flirting with her bf, that'll stop you. But before you get yourself into a bad situation, just think about how it might make her feel you trying to steal her man.

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you just stop. Try having different types of conversation.
lock yourself in the room %26amp; don't invite friends over.
No, have fun. If that pleases you.

But please don't break heart.
If flirting is a problem for you....i think it would be for a lot of girls...because some girl will start a RUMOR and say...She sleeps around and guess what she does not...Girls will become JEALOUS of you and start more RUMORS....and before the girl knows it is a SLUT...and the whole scenario is FALSE...so i would be careful to NOT flirt as much in your case...Just be nice and that should be alright...But if the guys take it wrong just say..."No, that is not me..."...I am just trying to be friendly that's all"....and walk away....RUMORS are horrible and hard to live down....
flirts with harmful is not good for you. if you flirt face to face then, it can be the way of joking and getting entertainment.

flirting is indeed need, but be careful for harming to others. just do it without harms !
the most easy way to stop is ..... just to stop doing it. done
You like the attention you get from males. So ask yourself why? Is it control, a longing for affection or whatever. Once you figure out why you want the attention then maybe you will choose to stop. I suggest you should be very careful about flirting with guys that have g/f because some girls are crazy and possesive sometimes simple flirtation can get violent.
i do too i am told as long as it's just flirtation than it's ok, but if it leads to something else then it's WRONG

Dating...flirt with someone else? si o no??

so yeah im goin out with one guy but this other guy likes me..can i have some fun and flirt...idk...i havent flirted with other dudes like through this whole relationship...a friend says flirting is ok if theres no intention of hooking up..and i so wouldnt do that

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I dont see anything wrong with it. As long as its innocent flirting. Not the whole running fingers through his hair, talking about naughty things...

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My belief is that when going out with a girl, I can look at other girls but cannot touch or make contact with them. I believe a girl should do the same. If the girl flirted with someone else while I was on a date with her, I would consider her a whore and never see her again. These are my beliefs and I apologize if I offend anyone.

How would u flirt to tell him i like him back?

this guy sam likes me i'm pretty sure. he flirts all the time. how would i flirt back. i know how to flirt but r there special ways to flirt im 13. and im a little tomboyish

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With eye contact and a friendly smile.A little innocent touching is ok

A flirt or a whore?

i get called a whore alot

and i don't kno why

I found out that people think i flirt too much and i don't kno what there talking about so i feel really stupid soo

am i a whore or a flirt?

i'm 13 if that helps

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my cousin has the same problem

its that shes acts flirtacious

she dosent try or anything

its just she is comfortable around guys

and she pals around with them all the time (they're all friends)

shes into sports and stuff but still girly girl

actually its the girls that are jealous

they dont get guys that easily

they are also jealous because she is pretty

those kids are probaly just jealous and trying to bring you down to make themselves feel better

your probaly very pretty and get guy friends easily

dont let those jealous vipers get to you

they just hate u cause the cant be you

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flritng a lot, does not make u a whore. do not let anyone make u feel bad
Your a whore if you go let guys touch you all the time and junk. And actually enjoy it. Your 13 so chances are the ppl who call you that are immature brats. pay them no mind. They are probably jealous.
they're just jealous!

if danny was 13 and a woman wanted to touch him you think he would accept? oh shut up danny
you're 13 and people call you that???

tell them to **** off.
dont let people bring u down

if they push you, push them back
stop thinking about guys, what are you going to do? marry them? it's just going to mess up. wait until your 20 and learn about dating and marraige.
you're just a flirt. if you're a whore then that means u're with alot of guys without beening together
no it doesnt make you a whore, it just makes other girl jelous.
they are probably jelious cause your probably cute and can hit on guys and they don't care.

Your only a whore if u have sex with every or almost every guy u hit on
WHORE!!! well honey you just dont go and flirt with other dudes on a daily basis. not all of them!!! stick to one. specialy if you let those other guys touch you. child you have so much to learn oh and specialy if your 13 [tisk tisk]. then again there's no shame in flirting....... never mind ignore all of that. flirt all you want honey life is short!! GO WHORES!!!
It is okay to flirt. Usually ppl at your age are very nervous when it comes to the opposite sex and expressing themselves. It seems as if you have cornered the market on this. Maybe you flirt because you see it as a way of making yourself feel good. There is no harm in that. Probably if the girls are calling you a name, they are jealous. If the boys are calling you a name it is because they are jealous that you are talking to other boys. A whore is someone who is operating like a cheap prostitute. I doubt you are doing that.

He says he flirts because that's his personality. difference between friendly and interest flir

I have a big problem with the one I love deeply and truely. I said he flirts way too much and I know I made a big mistake. How do I tell the difference between a mutual friend flirt and "still shopping" flirt. He says we're on a break because he's taking time to figure out what's going on. He said he's never done this before and he's been dating since 14 years old. Is this a subtle way of telling me he truely loves me and he's deciding if this is what he wants. I'm still really confused. Good advice would be great.

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Wake up, girlie. The guys hits on everything with a pulse and then punishes you by telling you that you are on a break because you question his boorish behavior. The boy is good--he acts like a lout, yet has you doubting yourself.

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well it sounds like to me sorry but he doesnt love you as much anymore.... when a guy says he needs time to "think" about things hes thinking about if he should be with you or not. so that means he doesnt like you as much as he did at first. do you understand?
girl he is letting you know that he is a male whore and if he flirts because of his personality thats saying that he will flirt to get in any girls panties who fall for the wink
when a man winks at another women then it's time to move on. when he to pats her on the butt the same. a pat on the shoulder is okay unless it leads into disastor. good luck.
If you are still in high school...i reccommend you don't put all your eggs in his basket...if you are out of high school...you should have figured by now you can do better....you sound like an awesome woman....why would a guy need a break?????????...........unless to look for a better option....don't get hurt...move on without him....
Yes...he is obviously hurt by what yoiu said becuase he loves you as much as you do him...He is also confused about if you may not like him anymore becuase of what yuou said

My advice: Give him his space but don't let go of him...keep and touch and love him even more...and show that you love him ALOT!
"drop that 0 and and get yourself a grown up hero"!!!!!!!!

alot is spelled a lot (separated.)
just talk to him very nice and dont confront him and talk to himto change his attitude
Uh oh! I know this is not what you want to hear, but from your brief description, this guy sounds like one bad cat! If you said he flirts too much, and he was unable to take that critisism and discuss it maturely with you, thats a bad sign! he is not respecting your concerns about the relationship, and is essentially dismissing something you consider to be important! Thats the first bad sign.

Some may disagree, but I personally think that any guy who is in a relationship should not be flirting at all. Period. You don't flirt with mutual friend. Flirting is a sine of sexual or romantic interest, and if he's supposed to be committed to you, there is no reason why this should occure.

If he's been dating since he was 14, you're probably nothing new or exciting to him. Dating is something he does, and it doesn't sound like it's something he does because he genuinly respects and cares for the women in his life! It sounds like he does it for purely selfish reasons, i.e. it makes him feel good and its a habit, but he doesn't really care about you.

This isn't him being subtle, this is him being blatent. If a guy really loves you, he will have the balls to come right out and tell you! He won't suggest you go on a break, flirt with other women, and then get offended when you point out his errors. I hate to bring up the trivial and poorly written book, "He's Just Not That Into You," but it is actually kind of appropriate in this situation. This man is sending you very clear signals that he isn't into you, and he doesn't respect you. You can do better for yourself! He doesn't deserve you. Show him to the door as fast as you can, and give him a swift kick in the rear on the way out the door!
This is weird, but i actually used to flirt with other chicks cause i really liked my girlfriend. She was soooo hot and funny and cool that i knew it would burn me up if she dumped me or cheated on me, so i'd flirt to keep in practice, to remind myself that i am hot too, and just in case she did some day drop me i would have someone there who i could turn to. So don't think interest or friendly flirt, think practice flirt and relax flirt. It's fun to flirt, but it doesn't mean it's going anywhere

But you're on a break... whew... could be the beginning of the end. I know you may not want to hear it, but it is a possibility you should consider. You've been together for a long time, this break may cause him to realise he doesn't want a relationship any more or perhaps he's already decided that and he's trying to let you down easily and slowly.

Alternatively, after being with each other for so long and when you're so young he hasn't had the chance to be free and be his own guy for a little while. Let him hang out. And you should take the time on this break to branch out and be your own person a little bit too. Don't spend it staying at home wishing he was with you, have a little fun. Relax. For the first time in however many years put him out of your mind a little bit. And then when he does come back you'll BOTH appreciate each other all the more.
I'm slamming my head into the keyboard as I type this!!!!! You told him some of his behavior bothers you, now you say you made a big mistake, why? Your relationship isn't honest enough for you to talk about how you feel?

He flirts and says he wants to take a break in your relationship. How, (in God's name) can you interpret this as telling you he truly loves you? Puhleease, (a) understand that a good relationship includes honest communication (b) give this guy some space (c) understand that this relationship may not last much longer and (d) find an older friend that you can talk to about relationships and signals. You need to get better at interpreting what's being told to you so you can use this skill in your next relationship.
There really is no friendly flirt. Either you're being friendly or you're flirting. The question is what is he doing that you think is flirting. Is he obviously trying to flirt or is he just being his friendly charming self? Charming people can come across flirty to a jealous partner. There is a major difference between smacking your best friends *** and telling her her new haircut makes her look beautiful.

My husband had this problem with me and I never thought of myself as flirtatious and I know my intentions certainly were not flirting. I really like people and tell them so. I don't hold back compliments. I am also a touchy person. I didn't even realize that I touch poeple often (on the shoulder, a little push, I'm a hugger) until Hubby started objecting. I refused to change who I was and be paranoid about what for me were natural interactions. It is awful to be made to feel bad for being nice. I was extremely hurt and confused about our relationship because I felt that such accusations could only be made by someone who didn't know me.

I finally asked him to observe how I was with both sexes and see if there was a big difference. He saw that there wasn't and is now fine with who I am. He only noticed when it was a guy because that was a threat in his mind.

You need to think back objectively and see if this how he is with everyone. And if you were wrong about his flirting, apologize sincerely and address your potential jealousy issues. If it's quite clear that he was being MUCH more than friendly lose him, he's playin' games.

I flirt with a Girl and She Doesn't Flirt Back...Different Emotions From Her?

I like this girl and I have been talking to her for about a week. Sometimes I feel like she likes me and other times I feel like she doesn't care what I am doing. She wants me to do a lot of stuff with her too. Yesterday we went to a party together and talked a little, I was flirting with her and she didn't flirt back but she seemed shy and looked at me a lot. Then on the way home I was holding onto her and laid her on the ground and laid on top of her and she was laughing.

The weird thing is she says she likes another person but the first time I talked to her she said she liked more then one person.

Next saturday I am going to her party and need some help on what you guys think!

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maybe she is confused about how YOU feel. she might think you see her just as a girl to flirt with, or a freind who you joke with. the best way to know whats going on with you two is to be straight forward and tell her exactly how you feel.

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i think that u should just move on to another girl. why would u waste ur time on a peron who likes more than 1 person?? i don't know about u, but if i were u, i would go find another person that really wants me and no one else. she's just a tease!
She is not repsonsive when you flirt with her. She also told you she likes someone else. What other sign do you need bub? You don't exactly need to call Sherlock Homes to unravel this mystery.
Well, if you really like her keep trying, she might be confuse, but having you by her side most of the time and trying or flirting with her most of the time, it might open her eyes to see with who she really wants to be with. She might be shy and not flirt back with you, maybe she doesn't know how to flirt, give her time and space, other wise, you'll push her away.

Good Luck!
She's a w/h/o/r/e. Do you want to be with a w h o r e?

"small flirt" how do u becum big flirt!?

so i flirt but some of mi friends r lik big flirts, how do u bcum lik them? lik how do u open yrself up?

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well the trick is not to be a big flirt but to be comfortable with your self...weither you are looking for a guy or a girl either one rathers a good self esteem opposed to flirting skills!

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Sorry I could barely read your question BUT you should not want to become a big flirt. Its not a good accomplishment and is nothing to be proud of
alwyas try to meet new firneds..learn new things...u will be biggg..flirt

-haaahhaa
practice
just act like a BIG s.l.u..t. that's what i do.

i just open up.... literally

Why Do U Flirt?

Hey Why Do ppl Flirt I mean I Flirt But I don't understand why I do It when I know I'll never get the guy He's either got someone or I'm not in to him But I still flirt *sighs* and I feel so bad doin it can U tell my why U flirt?

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I flirt because it's really cool to get a positive response from it.

A positive response kinda' let's you know that you're appealling, and sexy. I guess there's also an element of wishful thinking sometimes, but I sometimes flirt with folks that I have absolutely NO interest in..

Sometimes I just do it to help someone feel better about themselves... (and pray like CRAZY that they don't suddenly fixate on you or something).

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Because it's human nature. Furthermore, you never know when you'll hit the motherload.
I flirt because I like the temporary attention. Women like to feel sexy and that feeling of sexiness empowers us. Flirting makes us feel desirable and sexy!
i aint gunna lie if the guy isnt single i flirt hoping he will like me better i dont mean to do it but i do when i find out he does i feel bad and i stop flirting with him but i mostly only flirt if i like a guy and want him to like me and it comes naturally i dont ever mean to do it but i do lol so yea
That's how he started..............
To get you, maybe in my life forever??? who knows.
i flirt whenever I like a guy.... and sometimes even when i dont! my friendsays i flirt ALOT but i dont kno im doin it i swear! i really only knowingly flirt with my guy
Basically we flirt b/c we're trying to attract attention. We want to feel confidence and just beautiful. When someone flirts with you, it means that they find you attractive and they would possibly entertain the thought of getting with you. It's a great ego boost quite honestly.
Because girls wanna make sure that guys are attracted to them ... even the ones that they are not interested in...

Its natural .. its fun ... and its very very VAIN.. ;-)

Dr BAd
i flirt just cuz i like the attention and somtimes when i m boed. i also flirt if i like the guy and if he flirts w/ me i flirt back!
it feels good and is naughty but in a good way
Socialization is what most people crave.They want to be accepted,and liked.What is the easiest way to get attention,it is to flirt.It is harmless fun.

How do you flirt and how do you know if a guy if flirting with you?

I need to know if this guy likes me. whenever we do something together he gives me compliments but i don't know if he is just being nice or trying to flirt with me. i also need to know how to flirt without it being to obvious to everyone that i like this guy. i am very bad at flirting and i don't know how. i need A LOT of HELP!!!!!!!! =(

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grab him by his shoulder nd tell him you like

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guys are easy, you can just say hi, and they'll think you're all flirting so just paying attention is enough encouragement
first of all youh want to make the flirting obvious .. thats the fun of it!!

and second of all flirting comes naturally youh cant juss learn it

and lastly .. we need to know what he has sed to tell if hes flirting or not
doesnt flirting come natural?
well hunny its no use if ur gonna try to flirt with sumone and at the same time having it not obvousois to ur frends that u like him...it dosent work out that way. lol when ur flirting just go with it..like if he says ur hair looks really pretty today... dont be like oh i dont think so....u always wanna be positive when flirting! not negative!
if u dont know that, forget it...
when they say stuff like hey baby i know because I'm a guy
i thnk u should tell ur bestfriend that u like him.. she'll be able to help u.. and i think u should just flirt by being friendly and giggle a lot... and dont be afraid to tell ppl u like him.. good luck

Why does he flirt so much?

Ok so theres this guy.

He flirts with me alot. I'm starting to totally like him.

Do you think he likes me?

He layed his legs across mine and like played footsie. lol He played with my hand. He kept touching it actually. When I layed my head down on my desk he layed his hand on my side and kept it there. Eveytime I talk (not even to him) he looks at me RIGHT in my eyes. And when he stares at me his eyes get HUGE. But,my friend told him that I like him. And she said "Do you like Haley" and he said "Yeah I like her,as a friend" But I dont understand! He still flirts with me ALOT! HELPP! And also...he always flirts with me when he could flirt with any other girl thats around him but he picks mee.

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Women says man is just a friend= he is gay/or she has not had the opportunity to sleep with him yet

Man says woman is just a friend= He has no testicles/ is a virgin/ she is gay and he cant figure out how to do her and her girlfriend yet.

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listen guys are confusing! seriously they say one thing but their heart say a totally different thing... just ask him and see wat happens....

--Emerald
guys don't like 2 be embarrassed
he was lying to your friend. HE TOTALLY LIKES YOU!!!! so flirt back to let him know that u like him. if he doesnt ask u out in 2 weeks....and he still flirts with u ask him out.
Guys are more physical so he could not be flirting at all, but rather just fooling around.

Although it does sound like he is flirting...
he likes u but he just doesnt want to admit it to ur friend
He *might* like you.. but also, he might not.

If he acts like this to everyone... hate to say it, he probably does just like you as a friend.

Guys say different stuff to their friend vs. their girlfriend.

Your best bet is to ask him. [ If your shy...get your friend to ask him if he likes you. ]

My husband is a Big Flirt and sometimes girls misinterpret it,I want him to stop. Am I wrong?

I know he loves me. And I love him. But I think it is disrespectful when he flirts with other woman. He should only flirt with me. He did cheat on me before we got married and I forgave him for it,because I love him. But the flirting hurts sometimes. Girls hang around him all the time and it bugs me.What do I do? am I wrong?He is true to me now, but sometimes the flirting games offend me.Maybe I am a little scared of losing him. I hate feeling thi sway,I really try not to let it bother me, but it does. I can handle mild flirtation,but soemtimes the flirting gets outta hand. Then some girls won't back off.He comes home to me every night so I know he isn't cheating. Do you think I am getting too upset over it?

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You don't think he can cheat during the day! You are very naive. You are not wrong to be concerned. Chances are if he is flirting with other women, he is probably cheating too.

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Blatantly flirt with someone else and immediately monitor his reaction and if he does react negatively then open the floor for discussion if not then address it later by recalling the episode and asking him how he felt then express your concerns. Hint men respond a lot better to a level conversation versus an emotional outburst and yelling, well most men do. For some reason I personally take a woman more seriously when she is calm because i know SHE is speaking to me and NOT her emotions.
Flirt man never changes. but if u think (Knows) he loves u than only it possible. man always want different tastes but that means don't change the way U cook, CHANGE THE WAY U LOOK. Makeover yourself. He'll definitely come to U.GOD BLESS U.
Try talking to your husband, not shouting. Tell him how it makes you feel %26amp; tell him that if this is his way of trying to get attention his got yours already and that should be enough. Ask him how it would make him feel if you were the one doing this flirting. He should understand that as a married couple whatever he does reflects on you,(there should be some kind of respect; dignity etc.) Talk to your husband before his flirting leads to another affair.
No I don't think you are...I'd tell him how you feel...lay it all out for him...that's the right way to go about it...or...do what he's doing..flirt with other men...see what he says....most men seem to think what they do in regards to that is alright for them..not for "their" woman...

Movie Flirt!?

Can u guys help me out here? This guy ask me out to the movies and i want to flirt with him but he's the shy kinda guy, so he doesn't flirt that much or that well so i guess i have to make the "1st move" any tips on how to flirt in the movies?

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lean really near to him inside the cinema.

get only one straw for your drink.

when viewing an emotional scene, lie on his shoulder.

lightly touch his thigh when sitting inside the theathe.

he should get the clue. but if he doesnt, then just lean and kiss him.

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Just put your head on his shoulder. If he still doesn't get the hint then grab his chin and move his face towards you like you are looking at something he has on his face and just kiss him. Be agressive.
hold his hand during the movie thats what i do
tell him to look at you and say o you luv and then kiss him i do that i have a guy every time

How do i flirt with my best guy friend who seems to like me back?

i know him for a year now and people at our school think were cousins. they always ask us if we are. we just kept saying "no" but theres this one point we said "yea were cousins" well after we first said were cousins, he started flirting with me like side hugging me, holding my hands, hugging me, linking arms with me and stuff and we also sit on eachothers lap lol. i think its kind of weird to see "cousins" doing those stuffs. i mean hes never done that to me before. i like him and i wanna flirt back but i dont really know how to?like i want him to know i like him but not in a way that i have to tell him like verbally. ohh and when he flirts with me like that, our friends always ask us if we go out and he doesnt say "yes" or "no" he just keep saying "were cousins/"

to me it seems like he has the courage to flirt with me cozz people think were cousins but im really confused.also does he seem like he likes me that way?

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Sure thing dear, he likes you reciprocate these simple hugs and hold his hands and before u realise he;ll be asking you how u feel or better still ask you out.

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He likes you for sure.

Look him deep in his eyes and wait for a kiss.
whats his name ? cleatis you play the game to have some fun but dont forget that the gene pool is close
This guy is just a friend. If you try to take it any further you'll both feel weird.
the ever-lasting question, will we ever find the answer? LOL. Im in the same situation as ya hun, except for that whole cousins part, and no hugging yet either :(. Good luck.
show him your boobs.

How DO 7th grade boyz flirt??????

flirt?How do guys who are quiet and kinda shy around girls(But talktative and playful w/ their friends) flirt???What are the signs that guys like that flirt?

How do 7th GRADE GUYS (who are mature and quiet/kinda shy around girls)..flirt???????........WH... ARE THE SIGNS THAT A GUY LIKE THAT LIKES SOMEONE....??

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um..my crush stares and glances at me, but when i turn around, he hold eye contact, bu ti just look away; i can't' bear it.it makes me weak @ the knees............but he keeps on looking(i can feel his stares).......................... this flirting??og, and by the way.......he has NEVER said even ONE word to me!

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I was kinda like this in school. Go up and talk to him after class or something. It's hard in 7th grade but shy guys like us like it when you girls give us some sort of clear sign that you're interested. I know I wouldn't ask a girl out until I was sure she liked me. But that's just me. He probably isn't as bad as I was. If he's staring and won't break then he's either really weird (probably not) or he's interested in you. Show him you like him by taking an interest in him. Make the first move by starting a few conversations with him. It should pay off in the end. And try not to be too scared. I would have had much better middle school and high school years if I didn't get so worked up about everything. If he does like you (sounds like he does) you'll both be releived once someone breaks the ice. Hope I helped!

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I think that he likes you. You should try talking to him. When a guy stares at a girl that most of the time means he likes her. Just flirt with him and see what happens. If he is shy he isn't going to talk to you....Hes shy....So just make the first move
i thought i just answered this question!

anyways yeah that is flirting in the 7th grade he probably hasn't talked to you or you haven't talked to him because people still have "couties" in the 7th grade. and it's nerves no one wants to get rejected by their first crush. everything is new in gr 7 first kiss first holding hands first everything the puberty is just kicking in give the guy a break and try and go talk to him

you seem like a confident girl
You're way too young, but I'm going to tell you anyways. Sure sounds like he likes you, but is just way to shy to ever do anything about it. Almost every teen boy does this the first time he likes a girl. The good news is that you are totally in the driver's seat on this one. If you like him, create an opportunity for him to speak to you. Ask for help with homework (even if you don't really need help), or if he likes the same music you do. If he really does like you, he'll probably get all nervous. He might even run away if you're his first crush. The fact that he is nervous means he likes you that much, so go easy on him. If you do not like him, then do not look at him. Ignore him, especially when he is close by or doing anything that might be an attempt to get your attention. If that does not work, be rude or curt with him. Don't go out of your way to do this. Some boys might think you're being rude to get his attention. Don't bother publicly expressing interest in another boy. This almost never works--he will simply want to fight the other boy instead.

How do you flirt with your girlfriend?

i have a gf and she wants to be flirted with how do i flirt with her without actually touching her sexually?she wants to be flirted with cus she was never flirted with before..another guy is coming into the picture so i want to separate myself from other guys and fight back non violently but with love towards her so i can win her heart over

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Didn't she get the memo? Guys don't flirt after they've become involved in a relationship. At least not with their girlfriends.

In all seriousness... I'm curious as to how she became your girlfriend if you didn't flirt with her in the first place? This is something you should already know how to do.

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Well, if you two like each other, I'm sure the flirting would come naturally. Try poking her, tickling her in appropriate places, playing with her hair, holding her hand, giving her hugs, calling each other silly names, kissing her cheek, stuff like that. People have different ways in flirting.

Should i make a move, or flirt more first?

Theres a guy that i met a few weeks ago from my ex-bf and his friend. At first he was like hitting on me and flirting with me but i was kinda freaked out and didnt flirt back. I was kinda disgusted. Now i cant stop flirting w/ him. He flirts back and we catch each other staring at each other lol. and hes really nice, cute, and sweet. I love flirting w/ him but i kinda wanna go out with him. But i dont want to have any kinda drama with my ex.

So should i make a move, or still flirt? And wat should i do to avoid drama.

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as u have moved on ahead ur ex is no1 to worry about nd stop thinkin bout him dose days r past wen u used to think nd care bout him..... as far as ur latest guy is concened first kno him well is he d right guy coz fallin in love is d simplest thing but maintainin dat love is d toughest ......u can alweyz flirt wid him as its healthy nd u can kno each oder well in dat process nd once u feel dat yes he's d guy nd jus wanna go out wid him surely den consider him so according 2 me u aint dat sure whether 2 date him or not coz if u were sure u wud neva had thot bout wad ur ex wud feel ........

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ur ex is ur ex! HISTORY! who cares wut ur ex thinks, u both have to MOVE ON!
who cares about ur ex?
guys really dont care if you go out with there friend

as long as ur ex doesnt like you any more

go for it.
If your ex likes you he should want you to be happy right? Then continue on with your life
opps he's your boyfriend friend.. yet you are flirting wiht him.. gosh... that's really bad of you.. you boyfriend should have make a move rather than watching a show of lovey dovey episode... making him a gooseberry... too bad..

PLEASE!! Flirt help??!!?

I have never had a boyfriend. I feel like when I was in middle school I lived in a bubble with my loser friends and never really flirted or did any thing with guys.

Now I am in my third year of high school and I have friends that are much more fun and social. When I go to parties with my friends I have a really hard time talking and meeting guys.

My friend told me I should go flirt with this guy, and I was like I dont know how to do that. I get really stiff and have no clue what to say. This is weird cuz generally I am not a shy person.

I really need to learn how to flirt. And I would like to meet more boys an eventually get a boyfriend.

Any advice?

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Yep. Watch how other girls flirt and do the same.

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simply smile at the guy, make small talk, also mention things about his looks if u like them, for ex: i love ur hair. or w/e. u get my point
just start up a conversation with him, about anything
Be yourself just cuz he's a guy it doesn't mean you should become a totally different person. have Fun!
i have some advice...get a life!....maybe u have never had a bf because u are ugly!
you don't need to learn how to flirt you just need to be yourself most guys prefer a girl to be herself, cos if your not then you end up being together a while then you become yourself they are in for a shock don't you think?! And having a boyfriend isn't the end all and be all you know. Just go out have fun and when you least expect it someone will come to you!!

I decided I was off boys for good, and then I started having fun, became happier in myself and then I met this guy, he came up to me asked me out and we just 'clicked' and now I've been with him for nearly 8 years and married for 1year and have a 1year old boy (well he's nearly one) I mean I'm a bit older than you and I met him when I was 17 but you see I started having fund being myself and look what happened. So Good luck on finding your knight in shining armour!!
DONT NEED TO FLIRT IF THE Y LIKE YOU THEY LIKE YOU
well you laugh at what he says unless it is sooo stuiped.....and when you laugh touch his arm slightly and smile, also wisper in his ear like somthing silly but act like it a secret!!
just relax be yourself and start a conversation with him. does he like sports, is he on any teams, maybe talk about those things. Good luck
smile and be sweet and batt your eyes
OK girl you do need help i started having boyfriends in 5Th grade. This is Wat u need 2 do! when a guy comes up to you talk regularly them bite the side of your lip a LITTLE bit! Then that is called a little hint do that only if you like him and you know he dosent have a girl friend! just talk regularly like as if you were talking to a bff!!

good luck girly!
dont worry i have the same problem......

my friend has all the guys running after her.........

i am also a junior in highschool

it SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but hey if you get any advice that can actually help would you mind letting me know..........

we girls have to stick together
smile and be yourself!! flirting really isnt something you can learn. there are many different ways to flirt with someone and you need to find your style of flirting!! good luck and happy flirting!!!
SMILE!!!!!!!!!!! Just talk to the guy. Play hitting is a real good sign of flirting. Joke around and stuff. Just remember to keep smiling.
Flirting is not as hard as you might think. Think about what it is you like, hobbys, sports, subjects in school, etc... Try involving yourself more in group conversations with your friends and other boys, that way you'll become more comfortable, and you won't be on the spot and freeze up. After you know a person just a tiny bit it's much easier to talk to them so, relate back to previous conversations and subjects. Memorize one topic of interest that you have knowledge in to use as your fallback... Meaning if conversation totally dies you'll have something to say. Laughing and smiling helps. You'll catch on fast, have fun!
first of all be yourself..

here is a link that might help you..

http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
ok i'm a guy i like when a girl comes up to me puts her hands around me and say u are the one i'm looking for but if your ugly that wont work out so well or if he has a girlfriend
first of all how do you not know how to flirt thats sorta weird every girl is born knowin how to do that

and 2nd you dont have to flirt to get a guy to like you your suppose to flirt when you want to give him a signal to make a mmove on you
You just need to learn to be comfortable with yourself and with other people. Flirting is simple, once you realize what it is. When you're at a party and you're friends are encouraging you to talk to someone, then just do it. Think of things that you could talk about beforehand: sports, weather, hobbies. Look up some conversation starters on the internet- "hey my name's sally, what's yours?" or "how do you know the birthday girl?" or "hey do you watch the office? i love that show" or "did you try this drink? it's amazing!" And then once you start a conversation, thats when flirting comes in handy. Whenever there's an opportunity to say something cute, bat your eyelashes, or offer to grab him a drink, DO IT!! Then at the end of the night, take your cell phone out and ask him if you could get his number so you could give him a call "to go see that movie you were talking about that you both wanted to see." Or something like that. You get the idea.

One more piece of advice i have for you is to stay with your friends. You'll be SO much more confortable if you go up to a group of guys WITH your group of girlfriends instead of alone, that way you'll all be in casual conversation and your friends can support you and help you out a little when you meet that cute guy at the party.

I hope everything works out for you!
okkk,my name is prashant and i am 18 yrs of age and if u find me interesting just sned me a mail.

How can you tell when a guy is flirting with you and how do you flirt with a guy?

i havint had a boyfriend in a wile so i dont really know how flirting works i dont know how to flirt or when a guy is flirting with me .if im flirting i dont want ot act like a dumb person but i want to flirt

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Lol...90% of flirting is done with the eyes and the smile.............

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A lot of eye contact and little smiles!!!!
when a guy is flirting with you they are interested in only you for the few seconds that you are around them. they are looking directly at you and talking directly to you. now mind you flirting may be 3 seconds, 3 minutes or 3 hours. but i can tell you that it means that the guy is trying to capture your attention for what ever period of time the flirt lasts. the guy may tell a joke, stand a little bit closer to you, whatever he can think of to hold your attention and focus on him. when i flirt i may just smile and speak and hold the gaze of the person that i am flirting with a little bit longer than usual. i may wink, i may give a compliment, i may just speak and smile.....everybody has their own flirting style. you do what comes naturally to you. the best way to find out what is best for you is to get into a social situation where you can try it out. you have to jump in the water and get your feet wet so to speak. well come on and jump in the water is fine! phat beatz

How can I flirt with a shy girl?

I'm a senior in high school. Now, there's this pretty popular girl that is really nice (and single). She's attractive but she is pretty shy...we have the same set of friends but we have never really held a conversation. We laugh with each other sometimes, say things here and there...but I find it really hard to flirt with her. I flirt with every girl that I know, so this is unusual. She doesn't really initiate conversations and she doesn't have a whole lot of interesting stuff to say. I want to flirt with her some and get her attracted to me (even more) before I ask her to Starbucks or something. So what sort of things can I do to flirt with this shy girl?

Thanks for the help.

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okay i know where your comin from cause my cousin's current boyfriend had the same problem with her you don't wanna come on to strong or she'll get freaked but maybe since you guys have some of the same friends you could get them to help out a little i don't know what he did was got me in it and i helped him out so if you know someone really close to her than get them to help

sorry if this wasn't much help

good luck!

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flirt just like you do with everyone else i am in high school to ... just try to talk to her and see if she will talk to you.. um write her a note mabe she is just shy talking and if you all talk in a letter then mabe it will turn into talking in person... i know this is like so 2nd grade but try it... good luck
Only flirt with her if you really like her and intend on having a relationship with her! Try talking to her about things the two of you have in common like classes homework. Ask her questions like her favorite color get to know her never say me too if you don't really mean it she will be able to tell if you are lying get her talking make her laugh and don't make it sound like you are asking her on a date do it real sly like are you hungry? do you want to get something to eat? I'm thirsty do you want something my treat?
Usually people who are shy may have low self esteem so they need encouraging. Try to accept her as she is with her good and bad features, encourage her a lot, praise her for her good qualities (inner and outer). :))

How do you flirt with a stranger?

Personally, how do you flirt with a guy or a girl you haven't met? Are you a simple flirt? A smooth flirt? Or a let's-get-it-on flirt? c",)

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you dont wanna be tacky...best advice is flirt with your eyes before anything else(very romantic and the best frist step there is...its not rude and not obnoxious)....usually when you look at someone they would look at you back....its quite funny because its a fact...so if ever you wanna get someone's attention just look at them and while tallking with your buddy or someone... if you look at that person a lot...they couldn't help it....they will stare at you too...even if its not intentional(just dont try to look like a stalker) remember...flirt with your eyes and have a casual smile and laugh with people....once you're both locked in to each other's attention..pull your head down and back as if nodding(but dont nod) ...its kind of like catching a fish with your eyes as the rod....and give a little smirk..a friendly one....in most cases they will be the ones breaking the ice and actually talk to you since you got their attention...but there are some type of people who are afraid or don't like to take thefirst step...

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personally, im a natural flirt. even when im not trying my friends say im flirting like crazy, its kind of like a personality...
haha depends, usually "get-it-on" flirts lead to short relationships, if you want something else just be yourself, and go for the simple " hey what's your name " or whatever, that should do
Do you know that without we know we flirt wt some1 we don't know meaning while we r working if we need to answer the phonecalls and at times that person could be stranger to us as well. We do say Hi -bye and etc that is also meaning of flirt via interact with our opposite .
i kind of like not stare at them but just make eye contact .
you just pass next to them and say wat time is it and you start talking to them
Stare at them, make eye contact

Any advise about flirt-phobia?

I have this guy flirting with me, and I like him. (I'm f/23) I can stare with all my might--when he isn't looking. I am so darn eye shy. In fact, I find it difficult to flirt back. I do try though. Everytime I am around him, I keep telling myself, "let him catch you looking at him" but as soon as he looks, I look away as if I wasn't looking and that I am not even interested in him. *sigh*. This has been going on for about a few weeks now, but now he is not doing it as much anymore. I guess I am talking more than asking a question. I just find it freaky to flirt. I have never actually wanted to go out of my way to flirt with a guy before. SInce I am so darn eye-shy, is there anything else I can do?

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touch is very important and can send the right message. Don't make it too personal, but touch his arm casually. Brush hands with him. If you know he is looking at you, smile, even if you aren't looking at him. It's like you are acknowledging his flirtation. Guys like girls who are bold. Work on your eye shy, because if you catch his eye just once, that may be all it takes.

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Start talking to him.
wink at him,
Girls underestimate the power of their smile. Just smile at him, that's really all you'll need to do. Yes, you're shy, just take all of your shyness and wrap it up into a tight little ball and toss it over your shoulder. It'll be back, but that should buy you enough time.
well, do you have verbal-phobia, too? :-) try starting a convo or get his email so its not face-to-face. eye-contact is a lot, so try to get over your eye phobia, becuz that trick can do a lot for you. if you can look at him long enough, throw in a flirty smile. good luck girl!
It's okay if you look away, he is probably smart enough to know that you're shy. Just keep talking to him and occasionally ask him out to dinner or a movie or something friendly. Then hopefully you'll become more comfortable with him, etc.
Yes- quit trying to flirt- go up and have a conversation with him. Catching glances is a hard thing to do, since the meaning is often misunderstood. The best thing you can do is go up and start to talk- then and only then can you see if there is actually a connection or not. Heck, maybe he thinks you arent interested!

good luck!
Dont be scared go up and talk to that person.

Until you hear and understand what that person is about you'll never know what kind of a chance you'll have.
what you could do is stare at him and think of something else so it looks like you are focusing on him and when he looks over at you think harder about the thing u r thinking about.it seems confusing but it works.

How sould i flirt?

I like this guy. he's really nice and cute too(he's blond). there are total signs of flirting, but i'm not sure. he huggs girls all the time, but has only hugged me a couple times before. I text him all the time and talk to him alot. like the other day there was this game that all the people at my school was playing, and you had to slap someone's butt if you were tagged(long story), but every time he was tagged he hit my butt, then grabbed it. lol. + he tickles me alot, but yet he won't even hug me(i try to hugg him when he leaves to go to his next class, witch is on the way to mine)? i don't get it. he sits right next to me every day in one of my classes but doesn't act like he likes me. don't want to force him to do anything. i flirt back, belive me. he askes me to wait for him after class, but he thinks of me as just a good friend. i've decided that he probebly is not going to ask me out for a while, and to flirt alot and try to be his bestfriend. how sould i flirt with him?

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Flirting is easy. Try and show him that there is a lot more to you then that. It is great that you are able to laugh together, but show him more of you.

Be a good friend, show a sincere interest in him and try and have a few more serious conversations with him to show him that there is more to you then just a funny girl.

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u shold flurt good

i didnt even read it
just do what he's doing
His butt are you kidding me?
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Flirt, but with OTHER guys so he gets jealous. :P
try spelling should right....u r sofa king retarded
that's a funny game..
Ooo(jk) talk to him about funny stuff. Laugh when he laughs, u laugh. but most importantly be urself
You should really click on check spelling!
uuuhhhhhhhhhh. if he wants 2 b just friends then y flirt w/ him.????
He's a guy. Don't over do it. Believe me he is already interested, but be careful.
Maybe you can do everything he does and make sure he sees you doing it. If he doesn't like it, then tell him if you can't do it, neither can he. You could always flirt with me thought:)
try not to go in the friend zone with him hes put you there cuz he dosen;t see you datable for him fllrt with him but girlfriendly act like your already his girl
go up to him and ask him what the situation is..
Stop flirting with him and move on. If he really likes you, he'll be compelled at some point to make a move. If not, don't waste your time (and if this is high school, stop worrying about boys and do your freakin homework!!)
He probably doesn't want you to put your body next to his because you might know something he doesn't want you to know. There's a certain biological thing that happens to boys that's obvious if you get close. I'd say you should respect your body and not let people grab your butt.
ok text to him and ask him what do you think of me if he says alot of good stuff tell him wanna go out someday try it
Well sounds to me like he does not respect you very much. Why would you want a relationship with someone who abuses you. And yes, what he is doing is over the line. Find someone who is easy to talk to, likes the same things, and respects you enough to keep his hands to himself. Hugging is fine,but the other is out of line. If you don't respect yourself no one else will.
if you already gave up the pantie-draws, you can kiss him bye bye...sorry
well........just be 1 of his best friends...... see where it goes from there and ask him out to go see a movie then make your move!!!!!
Just be yourself if he likes you he'll come around eventually.

It sounds like he likes you if he was grabbing your rear

Maybe its the whole frontal hugging thing that bugs him maybe hes hiding a little something when hes around you and is afraid that you will find out
Try it with an "h" - Mae West said the hot wind that blows across the Mountains around which she'd be coming when she comes did the trick for Sirocco every time.

Should you find that he is still shy with you, the only one he would ever be serious enough about not to hug (all those others are just "easy hugs", after all), try hugging him.

Or asking him out.

It's all the rage in 'urope, I hear, and has been for many a girl for many a year.

Offer to "tickle his Tiki".
he sounds like he likes you its just he is a little shy. just keep doing what you are doing except don't hug him when he hugs girls it is probably a sign of friendship and he wants to be more than friends with you. so your doing pretty good but wait at least a month to ask him out
Ok Im was going through the same thing a week ago with a guy.(I switched guys)Ok Try seeing all the girls he hugs and ask them if they were more than friends.soon if nobody says yes ask him out.
Alright girl...........being a guy and all, i'll give you the lowdown. This guy that your talking about seems to like you of course but he doesnt want you to think that. Sure he'll slap your butt in a game of tag and ask you to wait for him after class, but he probably just wants to be good friends and have someone to have fun with and flirt with. You may consider this kind of relationship, "having friends with benefits." if you know what i mean. Or he might just want a cheap piece of ***, and he'll know you'll probably give it to him, because he knows you already like him. sorry about that, but that's just the games guys play. Girls play their cruel games and guys play theirs.

Hope it helps.......

I flirt with a Girl and She Doesn't Flirt Back But I think She likes me...HELP ME?

I like this girl and I have been talking to her for about a week. Sometimes I feel like she likes me and other times I feel like she doesn't care what I am doing. She wants me to do a lot of stuff with her too. Yesterday we went to a party together and talked a little, I was flirting with her and she didn't flirt back but she seemed shy and looked at me a lot. Then on the way home I was holding onto her and laid her on the ground and laid on top of her and she was laughing. Then I joked and said I wasn't going to attend her party next saturday and she got VERY annoyed at me.

The weird thing is she says she likes another person but the first time I talked to her she said she liked more then one person.

Next saturday I am going to her party and need some help on what you guys think!

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ask her out

We flirt with this guy a lot but i mentioned that i have a fine relationship with my ex when he was

we flirt with this guy a lot but i told someone else that i have a fine relationship with my ex when the guy i flirt with was present when he was hoping that all was not well. he stopped flirting started talking about how he would spend long weekends with her girlfriends yet i only meant to make him jealous since saw him with some girl. is ther still room for bringing back the spark we had even if we were not dating yet.

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there is always room to bring the spark back. Just be the aggressor. Men love that.

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You play too many games to be in a relationship. Grow up first then start dating.
LMAO

Screwed yourself on that one. Pun intended :P

Yep you can fix it by not playing games in the future.

To flirt or not to flirt? that is my (?)!?

ok i am in a relationship and i love my boyfriend and woulf never cheat on him.bu there is also this other guy that likes me nd has ll the same classes as i do and he has asked me out before but i turned him down...anyways i tend to flirt without meaning it and i was wondering if i should try to control myself with the flirting or if i am safe?

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if you are in a relationship then (im going to be brutally honest) stop thinking about other guys. unless your bf is being a jerk don't do that infidelity garbage. why would you? i understand that girls naturally desire attention but there is a limit to that. everyone flirts now and then. but if you are in a relationship and you are flirting so much that a guy is asking you out then yeah you need to back off or get out of the relationship. why would you hurt your bf just because some other guy is showing interest? my advice is to cut back on the flirting as much as possible or else you are just going to upset and maybe eventually lose your bf. unless he is doing similiar things to you its not fair for you to do that to him.

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Do what you need to do
I think that u should control urself becuase u wouldnt want ur man messing with some other girl even though his just messing around with her
If you really love your boyfriend like you say you do, then stop flirting. I don;t think there is such thing as harmless flirting, it will get your mind thinking and straying. Yuo will never be happy if you are always comparing.
personally i think it depends on you and your motives. Sometimes if a girl flirts with me, its flattering, but then if I ask her out and she says she has a bf (or husband) then it becomes annoying. However, thats only because of my expectations. Leading a guy on is a whole nother story though. There is a difference.
I would try not to flirt with him because that is sending him wrong signals and he may think that you are interested in him so i would play it save and just try to be casual friends.
unless you want to cheat on your boyfriend you should try to control yourself
If flirting is so innocuous, is it OK to do it with someone other than your significant other while in a committed relationship? According to Baltimore psychologist Shirley Glass, PhD, you're treading in dangerous waters here. "Flirting is the first step in crossing the line of infidelity," she says. "People who cheat cast out their nets to see who is receptive. If your partner isn't threatened or offended by it, then it's probably good-natured and charming. But if your partner feels challenged or disrespected, your signals are probably too suggestive."

How do i flirt with a shy guy and have him flirt back?

ok. so there is this guy im crazy about! not a lot of other girls like him and idk y!! so i am guessing he doesnt flirt that much. i want to flirt with him but i want him to flirt back. then maybe he will like me a little more. but how do i do this? HELP!!!! %26lt;3

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if he's shy you don't need to flirt, I can guarantee you he would be happy talking to you and hanging out without all that immature and useless flirting

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First off- you need to IM me more often, second I might be shy but not dead.
oh I`m the same as you =] my boy`s never even had a girlfriend because he sucks at flirting, haha! so yeah, I basically have to step up %26amp; flirt with him, I need tips too.`

thanks for asking =]

How to flirt with a flirt?

One of my friends that i really like flirts all the time. Some times i feel its genuine, but how do i know for sure? And she is so good at flirting and makin me think about her, how exactly do i flirt back?

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I usually joke around, smile, and wink. Other times when my friends hug me, I'll hug them a little bit longer than I usually do.

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Just say something like hey Hott stuff How are you tonight? You know stuff like that
just repeat the things she says about you.
Dont use the word "Hot". Girls set you aside from other guys of you call her "beautiful". But be genuine, dont just say it... ANd look into her eyes...Some girls are all about the eyes and smile.
hmm.. thats hard to say.. I had a girl like that once...i asked her out but she turned me down =(

but then i had a buddy of mine that had a friend like that and he asked her out...long story short they're married now..

in others words you'll never know till you ask!

How can i flirt with him?!?!SOME GOOD TIPS PLEASE!!!?

i like this guy in my class(my ex) how can i flirt with him and maybe give clues that i like him. my friends say i should flirt with him so i can show him wat he's missing out on. but i dont know how! i kno how to flirt what do i do! IM CONFUSED!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!

thx for nebody who answered my question! much love 4 every1!

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Wink at him

Talk to him and giggle a lot.

Maybe write him a silly note.

Blow kisses

Good luck!

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Just be natural..... give him those looks of lust....and smiles
Whenever you talk to him you smile a lot and try to touch him. Like ask a question and put your hand on his shoulder briefly.
You either have the "flirt" gene or you don't. There's no secrets to it. Just let your interest in him show.
play footsies with him and sweet talk him but not 2 much bcuz u want him to come back 2 u right?
How can you like your ex?
hey...well i think u need 2 flirt with other guys in front of him...cuz if he sees u then it will nore than likeli make him mad unless he doesnt feel the same way bout u....but if that dont work then i think u shuld just tell him.....
do the pirfume walk-by, to do this, u need perfume(that atracts boys), u need 2 know where he is. first, u spray ur self silly with the spray, then walk right by, and if he notices, then start talking to him, and if he dosen't, keep walking by, he'll notise sooner or later.

How to flirt with a guy that you like sooooooooooooo much?

okay. i really like this guy from the moment i saw him. i asked another question before that was how do you know if a guy like you. will now i want to know how to flirt. you see, i know what flirting is but i don't know HOW TO FLIRT or WHEN A PERSON IS FLIRTING WITH YOU? so anyone has some answers????? o_0

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Yes well I am THE PERFECT person to give advice for flirting. Flirting Master herre. Well, smile alot. giggle a little. bat your eyes not like a crazy person. also find a subject you can both talk about, not something boring, just something general, like what your doing this summer or something like that. i have found that guys tend to like me because i am flirty. so with everything i am doing ( all the above) i can say its all working (although now i am taken so if you wanna be in a relationship i guess you have to start with flirting)

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Ok hold your horses, lol. Ok, go to this site, www.links2love.com on the right side or the left i forget it should have a section for Teens, click teen flirting and it should say tips of flirting for guys and girls on there. Also for adults!
Ok, before you do any thing to embarrass your self..... READ THIS FIRST!!!! A few days ago i found this great site that shows you how to do almost any thing. Look around this website and search for "Dating" and you should get alot of articles answering your question. Here it is: www.wikihow.com

Hope i helped,

SmartBoy
It all boils down to two things:

1. Make it clear you have a high opinion of him.

2. Make it clear you want him to have a high opinion of you.

But

3. Don't be insincere or otherwise annoying.

The details depend on you and him.

As just one example of many: If he responds to "Do you think this looks good on me?" with "Hell, yes!", you're on the right track. If he responds with an annoyed or insincere-seeming "Of course", try a totally different approach next.
Just be yourself and joke with him. Show him who you are. you can be silly and kinda bump into him. Eye contact very important and smile at him. Give him the definite go ahead with your beautiful eyes!!!! :)

Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?

My ex is a big flirt, but she says shes just "over friendly" with people. Is that really possible or am I right that shes a big flirt? She meets people easily and she talks to guys all the time and in high school there were rumors about her being a slut (mostly from girls). I think she is always flirting with me (bumping me when she walks buy, asking for hugs, tickleing me) and I get mad because I like her still and she said she just wants to be friends so I tell her to stop flirting with me and she says shes not flirting with me thats just the way she is. Is she teasing me? or is there really girls out there like this????

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I am friendly too, my ex's all told me i was flirty.

I am just a people person, i make friends easily and like to laugh and goof off, i am really sarcastic too... which can come off the wrong way. My ex fiance is the one who brought it to my attention, and then the guy after him told me the same thing. I know with me it does not go past talking..... you might just want to ask her out and if she says no then there you go.

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umm, I dunno cuz I do it to and I just do it to tease guys.

No other reason than that.

If she was over friendly, wouldn't she do it to her girl friends as well???
It sounds like she is just like that. If she knows it bothers you when she tickles you and stuff, hopefully she will respect your feelings enough to stop. But she just sounds like a nice, friendly girl.. To a girl, having a friendly convo. is just that, but to the guy, it could be flirting. And chances are, if mostly girls were calling her a slut, they are just jealous.
girls are like this.

its weird and rude, but we cant help it.. its almost natural. my boyfriend and i fight alot about this problem.. however in my eyes i love only one man. and because of my tomboy characteristics i feel more comfortable with guys. we like to joke and play around. unless she really is a slut.. there are girls who like to play around for pleasure, girls to whom just come naturally, and the clingy ones who basically stalk you..

girls are hard to understand.. i am one myself and i still havent even figured my own species out?!
sounds like she is flirting to me,but when you say stop flirting with me and she says im not.... tell her to stop being so (over friendly) to me then!
now she could still just be teasing you cuz she gets a kick out of it . or deep down she wants to be more than friends but doesnt want to admit it to you so she just keeps messing with you . gurls do just flirt for fun , i know cuz i do it at times .
each individual has a certain level of "flirt" and might be readily accpeted by indivduals. as long as they dont carry ob to....you know where I mean...it should be ok. but be aware of conservative views.

as for your case think you are " sour"...sorry over a failed relationship and feel such. think you may not like "over friendly" girls too....

just let it be ...its just anothe rindidivual personality.

good luck.
Well I'm actually like that to both genders... when in a good mood. But yes, people are always taking it the wrong way.

Alot of girls are like this. She is probably telling the truth

Im kinda scared to flirt with this guy infront of her. why is that and how do i get over it and flir

well i used to flirt with my crush all the time and i kinda backed off becuz i didnt want 2 scare him away. then i think this one slut girl Eden found out and whenever i try to talk 2 him she grabs him away and starts talkin 2 him. (by the way i figured out that he likes me) now he never really talks to me and stuff any more and always talk to Eden and stuff but he still stares at me and sometimes he talks to me but not like before and why is he like this. hes real confusin.and for somereason im kinda afriad to flirt with him infront of her becuz i never really get a chance. tomorrow im really gonna try and do what i used to do to him. and i made a list of like everything to do so i dont get stuck but anymore tips how i flirt with him while Eden is there. i want him to like ask me out before Christams break or something. him, me and eden are int that class together. i really wanna flirt with him but sometimes i cant get myself to so i kinda need help. thanks to eveyone who helps!!!!!!!

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If you really care about "you and him" getting on another level then when Eden is around it shouldn't stop you if this what you really want.

Flirting is just a way of reassuring that they are interested and now you know he is.

Right now everythings in a good standing, just ask him out.

Dont be afraid of a simple yes or no.You can always be his friend.

2 guys...best friends...both flirt constantly w/ me...one has a gf..what's the deal?

i work w/ 2 guys who are best friends. one of them has a gf, the other one never has. they both flirt w/ me to the extreme (sex jokes, kicking my butt, asking me cute questions, touching me..that kind of stuff). whenever i'm alone w/ one of them it's crazy flirting..i luv it lol. but here's the thing: whenever i'm w/ both of them at the same time, the one w/ the gf still flirts w/ me alot, but the OTHER one doesn't flirt w/ me at all. in fact, he gets kind of jerky when his friend flirts w/ me. to tell u the truth, i like BOTH of them, but idk which one likes me. the one w/ the gf flirts w/ me a little more and txts me alot. the one W/O the gf is more shy and cute, doesn't have my phone number. and if u look at my previous question "you'll never get w/ me" (there's alot of em lol), he's the guy i'm referring to. this makes it even more confusing. SOMEONE HELP ME!!!

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What tyler H said can sometimes be true, how you explain this it seem that your friend W/O A GF it's jealous. So I suggest that you give him your number and tell him to call you and started from there.

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the one with the g/f is trying to get you to go out with his friend AND make fun of his friend for liking you at the same time. its how we roll. its fun to mess with friends.

I love to flirt even if i dont like the guy is that bad?

i am one of the BIGGEST flirts and i am always flirting. its the best part of school to me! i always hug a guy, touch his hands or shoulders, smile, hold their hands, mess with their hair, andwear their jackters. i was even votes "biggest flirt" and "cutest girl". some girls dont like me b/c i flirt with the guys they like. but i dont even try to do it! its not like im a bitchy oerson. i think its actually automatic. whenever i see a member of the opposite sex, my charm and flirtaciousness just turns on and i dont even notice. i am NOT a sllut and i dont dress like one either. in fact, this guy turned me down because i was too much of a goody goody! so im not a ****, but i am a HUGEEE flirt. i am constantly flirting. is that bad, wrong, or unfair to the guys, if i always touch them, giggle, and flirt?

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You know flirting is not a bad thing but in this case your going to far. If you continue to flirt with guys you don't like they're going to get the wrong idea. That can get messy. The guy could become a stalker, you could get raped, they could get angry and spread rumors about you, or get emotionally hurt. It also sends out the wrong impression about you, girls will hate you and call you a w***e to your face and the guys well their not going to say what they think about you to your face. They'll run around telling everyone they know your an easy little hoe but not say it to you so they can try to get in your pants. A few of your close friends will understand thats just you but your just asking for trouble.

Now I have answered a few of your questions and know about your problems at home. I think your flirtation which gives the impression that you are something your not might have something to do with the things you've been through. Your need to be the center of attention is a big problem and you are going to find that it gets you into alot of trouble. I'll be honest if someone acted that way with my bf I'd be beating some a**. I'd hate to hear that something happend to you because some guy got the wrong impression or some girl doesn't like you trying to take her bf. When you behave in this manner guys WILL think it's because you like them and girls ARE going to think you want their bf. You need to be careful. I honestly believe you need to talk to a professional because of things going on at home and to help you learn why you behave like this and how to help stop it. It is not automatic to touch every guy you know. Some small flirtations are automatic but not to this degree. I hope you take my advice. I feel for you because of things going on in your life and I know where your headed if you don't deal with your issues. Take care.

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no!!!! u go girl.. it's not bad at all.. thats who u are.. and thats ur personality.. i flrt alot too.. however i dont flirt with guys im not attracted to.. but i freaking go crazy flirting and teasing the hotties i like!
Touch me and you die.

I dislike girls like you. ;)

They mess with my vibes.
I hear you on the flirting thing. I'm the same way, except in guy form. Honestly, it's not a BAD thing, but it could get you in a lot of trouble. Guys might take things to literally and girls might alienate you for being a natural flirt. Just be careful with who you flirt with and how you flirt.
thats not bad, i do it all the time. it just means u like 2 have fun..lol!
no thats not bad at all just dont go too far and start leading them on
flirting isn't always a bad thing

but if you do it too much understand that

your being a tease

and can cause guys to get the wrong impression.

and if you don't like "him"

and he starts liking you it gets pretty bad

so i know it's going to be hard

but I'd try to lessen up the flirting

i mean don't drop it just minimize it.

yeah hope i could give you advice that works.
Flirting is not the trend anymore my dear. So stop it! It is very unfair to YOU!. If you think that you are all that, you are mistaken. When you flirt, men will take you up for that, then after 15 minutes (sometimes 5) you will not see them again nice to you. Flirt equals garbage.
Thats not a bad thing. Everybody needs some love. Im exactly the same way... except with women. :)
It is at the least, very misleading to them. It sounds like you have a strong desire to be the center of attention, so if I were you, I would ask myself what is missing in my life that makes me want to have all of the attention in the room.

I'm glad to hear that you are not promiscuous, but you shouldn't be surprised if people think that you are...your behavior isn't lining up with your intentions, so you are feeling a strain and you are posing this question tonight.

A few questions for you:

Are you an insecure person? Do you have a father in your life? If so, what is your relationship with him?
Same with Gecko... I really, really hate flirts.

Hope our paths will not cross... ever.
It's ok to be that way if you intend on living your life alone or jumping from one guy to the next cause no man is going to put up with that for very long. I would say to try to keep your flirty ways to your man and you will be allright.
It's not bad... it's who you are. Just like with anyone, though, sometimes you have to keep yourself in check for your own sake. You don't want to push people away for something like flirting. Just be yourself but keep other peoples feelings in mind. If someone gets offended or is getting the wrong impression..... apologize and don't do it around that person anymore. Otherwise, you may end up making a lot of enemies. That's just the way it is, sadly. On the other hand... if you don't care what other people think... then who cares! Do what makes you happy!
i wish i knew more girls/ a girl like you! there is nothing wrong with it. i like it when girls are like that w/ me, girlfriend or not. its just us high schoolers having fun.
No, it's not wrong. In fact, I call that sharing your love and sharing your feelings that you really care about people (in general) when you hug them. The flirting isn't bad in itself, as long as you are not leading the other guys on -- and it sounds like you are not. Keep it on the up %26amp; up and all is well. The girlfriends are just being possessive, that's all -- don't worry about it -- as long as you don't overstep the boundaries set before you, you will be fine. Hugs are always free!!!

How do you flirt? How do you know if someone's flirting?

It seems like there are many different ways to flirt with someone. I'm curious as to how you guys and gals flirt. What techniques do you use?

For example, I've seen a guy and girl flirt by being cocky and making jokes and slappin each other playfully. Is that flirting? Don't friends do this too though? How do you tell it apart?

And how do you know if a girl is flirting for real? Like, how do you know if she's just flirting for fun or if she's attracted?

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This is kind of a weird question, i mean if a guy or girl is flirting, YOU'LL KNOW. But there's definitely light playful touching, cute jokes, jazzy little sexual (nothing dirty) remarks here and there. If they have overtly sexy, or corny jokes, then they probably are flirting, their just doing a BAD job at it though. I believe fllirting is something that occurs naturally, and yo u can't really LEARN it per say, but try to look at this site and see if it helps!

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Rwar, girls flirt in different ways but, the best way to tell is if she's smiling. If she is, she likes you! I coached many in the art of flirtation through messenger consultation with extreme success. I'd love to help you.

David Sexton., PHD Human Relationships/Author

How to flirt ??

i try flirting with girls but, every time i do then look at me as to say what you doing,

they just walk away from me,

how is the best way to flirt, whats the key to it

whats the best flirting lines to use

there is a reason me asking because there is a girl a really like i know her very well, and she likes guys that flirt with here

but i would like to flirt with her wothout her knowing,

how can i do that please help me stuck,

best flirt lines what are they

thanks for reading this

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make her laugh; compliment her...............and ONE thing you should NEVER do is try to HARD! just chill it out........Good luck!

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You don't need lines for flirting. That is like picking people up, which some girls might find annoying. Complimenting girls is a great way to flirt, it embarrasses and pleases them. Also making light jokes or teasing to make them laugh is considered flirting.
You cannot learn to be a flirt - because it will come out as superficial and that you try too hard.

You have to be natural with it.

Just be yourself and smile a lot.

Simple.

NB: And don't TRY and be like someone else. You'll just make yourself look stupid.
To be hounst a lot of Flirting is done off the cuff, like answering back in a sexual and whitty way some people are really good some just can't do it - I don't think there are any one liners really but I could be wrong - good luck with your girl
be yourself, make them laugh
Try to be subtle and make them laugh that worked for me with my wife and now I flirt for fun with lady's all the time maybe it's different when you flirt for fun as you are under no pressure!!
be natural when u are with her then u will succeed. u dont need to be taught. it comes from within
ask her for her opinion on something that she might be interested in. women like being asked for advice.

a quite sweet way to break the ice and find out the real answer is to smile at her and say "hypothetically, if a man wanted to chat you up or ask you out, what would be the best way to do it?"

when she responds, smile enigmatically to yourself then change the subject completely.

this will have her wondering to herself about your motivations and whether or not you actually will ask her out. after a while she may even start to chase you.

this is when you follow her advice and strike for that date.

good luck!
Flirting is very abstract. Is is a way of speaking between the lines. For example:

Dave: Hey how was your day?

Angela:Good. yours?

Dave: Better, since your here.

Situation 2:

Dave: Did you go see that movie at the theater? You know the new one?

Angela: No. Why?

Dave: Do you wanna go see it, with me?

Situation 3:

Dave: Are you tired?

Angela: No. Why

Dave: Cuz you've been running through my mind all day...

That last one was a joke...

Just be yourself. Try just putting little hints here and there and if it isn't working, just up the intensity a little, your bound to get her attention.....

But if it really doesn't work... just be honest and tell her you really like her....
Using quips and 'lines' won't work. The sure-fire way to flirt is this: you always prepare the turf by being very normal and just saying hi, if it feels natural say something really normal. Leave it at that and move on. Next time you come in you have already broken the ice so just start a normal conversation like you know each other. Gauge her reaction: is she responding or cool? If she is relaxed keep it up. On your third meeting go in for the catch. Ask her for a coffee or something.

Other women flirt with my husband, but he does stop them. This leads them on, right?

Not to brag, but my husband is very good looking. In not...lol. Other women are constantly flirting with him, even right in front of me. Most of the time is women he doesnt know, because it will happen out in public.

My neighbor has a 2 year old son that we babysit sometimes. This morning when she dropped him off, my husband answered the door and she thought i was asleep. She said to my husband, 'Oohhhh daddy, arent we dressed up nice?" She said it in a flirting voice. But then in a plain voice she said, "Wheres your wife? Asleep?" All my husband said was , "No, she getting dressed."

This reaaly hurts my feelings. He says that he doesnt flirt back, which IS true, he DOESNT flirt back. However, he doesnt stop the other women from flirting with him, or he never says , "Sorry, i'm married." Wouldn't that lead them on if he lets them flirt with him? I know if i was single and flirted with a guy, and they didnt stop it, i would take it as a sign that they like me! I

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well you've answered your own question really; he cheated and you dont trust him to say no.

You chose to forgive him and stay (obviously) so you're going to have to get over those feelings. You cant stay with him and then hold it over his head the rest of your life, you wouldnt be happy and neither would he. If you havent already gone to couples counseling I would do that. Staying in a marriage with someone who has committed adultery numerous times shows the depth of your insecurity and lack of self confidence. You dont have to deal with it, but you are choosing to. And since you are choosing that, make him go with you to the therapy and work through it.

Regardless if he had cheated or not, the flirting is an issue. People can say that 'married not dead' bullsh|t all they want to but its disrespectful and unnecessary. Talking is one thing, coming onto to someone expressing sexual interest is another.

Given his prior track record though, he should be more sensitive and mindful of these situations and rectify them as soon as they arise. Him not doing so is signaling to you (and others) that he hasnt learned from his ways and isnt really sorry about it. He's not trying to ease your mind or remove the behaviors that could escalate into another affair. He did screw up and should be kissing your feet and trying to make you feel better any chance he gets.

Give the counseling a try, if it doesnt get any better after that then you will again have to decide if youre willing to put up with him and his groupies for the rest of your marriage.

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HMMM either you trust him or you don't....seems to me you don't. If he is not flirting back I would say you are blowing out of proportion....i'm sure there will be alot of people who have a different point of view on this however. If a guy flirted with you it would probably feel really good, which is what it probably does for your husband....but he is not flirting back or anything so what is the problem? Jealousy can be a breaker in a relationship, especially when it is not warranted.

Good Luck
When a woman comes up to him in public you look them in the eye and say why yes my husband is a good looking man don't ya think? Not only are you telling them he is married you tell them you know what they are thinking most will back off. As for your neighbor.I wouldn't trust her. She knows you and wants you to watch her son and flirt with your hubby. I would tell her sorry isn't going to happen.
You are being too touchy about, he is good looking and other women are always going to flirt with him.

Seems he did good when telling the other woman "No she is getting dressed", that woman knows he's married so what should he have done.

Get over it, or get out. you are just going to drive yourself and him crazy with your insecurities.

You might try counseling
wrong...wrong....wrong.....your wrong about everything.....its your job to stop the flirting.....if he hasnt done it yet he never will...
I think the flirting is innocent. The woman gave your husband a compliment. He probably was "dressed up nice". Don't let it hurt your feelings. You are beautiful and your husband is with you. Be glad that your man is so fine. I don't think he is leading women on. And you know, some women are vultures, but you will know one of them and you will have to step in.
I think you're wrong. Your husband is doing nothing wrong, and he is not angry at being flirted with. You are the one who is bothered by their behavior. Therefore, since you are the one who has the problem with it, it falls to you to do something about it.

That said, I don't even see why it matters to you. We men who are married to attractive women have to put up with it constantly, because, believe me, men flirt with good looking women a lot more than women flirt with good looking men. Men talk up my wife all the time, but she's with me, so I just smile and tell her it's no wonder to me they're attracted to her.
He's not flirting back. If the other women are too stupid to notice he's not interested in them, that's their problem. He's not doing anything wrong.
It does not sound like he is leading on at all. In the example you cited, about him all dressed up, he could have said, "well, I knew you were coming over and wanted to look my best."

If he says anything to discourage them, he will just look vain and defensive. If you say anything, you will look terribly insecure. All of this is about the type of flirting you used as an example. If it gets directly sexual, I would alter my opinion.
You are being ridiculous.. So what if they flirt.. make yourself more flirty and sexy with him. Of course he enjoys the compliments.. who wouldn't?? Trust.. is there.. don't destroy it. You are insecure.. fix that.. then move on an have some hot sex with your.. I stress your husband. Number two reason for divorce the green eyed monster jealousy.
your husband is probably flattered with these other women flirting with him. he also probably thinks as long as he doesn't flirt back that it doesn't do any harm, even though it bothers you.

how often do you flirt w/ him? just b/c you are married doesn't mean that you can't flirt w/ him and chase him like b4 you guys were married!
I think this is something you should talk to him about, ask him why he is not stopping this and it is making you very uncomfortable!

You have got to talk to him about this, if you do not, it will grow and fester inside of you and cause more tention in your marriage, and you do not want that.

Communication and honesty and trust are just a few things to base a happy marriage on.
I had the same problem with my husband. The way I see it, he's not flirting back, so most women should see that as him being uninterested. A lot of people flirt without it meaning anything. He's not leading them on, by flirting back. And the maybe the reason he doesn't stop them is because it's an ego boost for him. And him saying, "Sorry, I'm married," isn't going to do much when the girls (like your neighbor) already know.
TRUST your husband!! If he truly feels that there is no issue then maybe it means way more to you then him!! He might not even realize that they are flirting with him.
He doesn't flirt back. That's the most important thing. I have much the same issue with my wife, in that she doesn't stop it, but at least she doesn't flirt back.

I think when you are with someone who is nice to other people, it seems rude to just bring someone up short like that. For one, it's very presumptious to think anything is intended by the flirting. As much as I'd like my wife to stop the guys short, that really is MY job, not hers. Just as this is YOUR job, not his. When women flirt with him in front of you, you can be polite, but you need to assert your presence. It sounds like your husband is loyal to you, so he'll take your lead if you do that.
This is tough dear,most men like that and yes you're right it could go further.

I would write a letter to my husband and explain my feelings,I think it's okay let him know you're hurt and jealous.

I would also try to stop the other women ,by any way you can .

You see dear for some reason ladies like to flirt with other men especially cute ones.and they don't care about our feelings so why should you care about them,defend what's rightfully yours in every way you know and if he loved you he'll understand,it's not only his responsibility but yours too.
Hi!

I could see why this would upset you. However, if he is not flirting with them, you really have no beef. If women come up to him while you are there, you need to address them. I would say, my baby sure is fine, huh? You have to trust that he loves you and that he is married to you so that is where he wants to be. The neighbor I would check. Especially if she wants you to watch her son, I would let her know that I heard her comment and that it was inappropriate. Good Luck to you!!
He is not responsible for other women - so when you say that he "lets them flirt with him" you are wrong. He has no control over other women's behaviour. And it sounds to me like he's doing exactly what he should be - not recirprocating. So what are you so upset about? Just because he doesn't feel a need to mention he's married doesn't mean he's leading them on. You need to get some self confidence and relax. Seriously..
OK.....my husband is also a great looking man.....EVERYBODY flirts with him. I am glad he is having fun in life. He doesn't flirt back, he has a great since of hum our and makes fun of it. When my friends play/flirt with him he makes them laugh. I am certain that when he goes to work that he gets hit on plenty, he works in a hospital. My point to you is that if a man has morals, is married to you and you have a solid relationship that there shouldn't be anything to worry about. I know that when a man flirts with me, I make fun. I Don't flirt back and that my husband has nothing to worry about. You say that you aren't good looking? I think probably that you are, do what you can to accent the good, fix yourself up, go to a salon, get the "treatment" makeup, hair, etc, go shopping for really flattering clothes, most any one who tries can be beautiful on the exterior as well as the interior. You will feel better. If money is an issue, find a special at the salon and splurge and thrift shops in upscale neighborhoods have some great clothes. Good luck....don't worry.
I had a bf that was so good looking... same scenario as you described. I was very flattered by the other women's attention. Never thought anything else about it.
i totally understand how you feel! it sucks. i would consider myself to be attractive, but for some reason the past two guys i have been with (were extremely attractive) and would get tons of attention everywhere we go. I was shocked at how bold and rude some women were, even while i was standing right beside them. anyways, the scenario that you posted about the neighbor coming over and saying that, i think your husband handled it well, seeing as he DIDN'T flirt back with her, so that was a form of a rejection on her part. however i know that you would have love to hear something like "my beautiful wife who i adore is getting dressed right now" but men many times don't think that far into things to give such an eloquent answer. i would step up the game some. don't act jealous or insecure by clinging to your husband or being rude, but if women do flirt with your husband in front of you, don't be scared to look them in the eye and make some kind of comment (possibly introducing yourself) assert your presence and let them know that your the queen bee. for instance when the neighbor woman came over and said that (don't be shy or feel awkward because its your man and that woman she be the one feeling awkward) i would have come up to the door and made some kind of comment like "isn't daddy looking nice for his wife today" and then leaned over and kissed him on the cheek and walked off. she would have caught the vibe loud and clear. women are very intuitive about those things. and i would talk to your husband a little bit more about it. don't overkill it though because men like a confident woman. but tell him that you see him as the protector of your family and relationship and if someone does anything to threaten or disrespect your family or relationship be it man or woman you would like to see him step up to the plate and demand respect in someway. tell him you find that attractive and that makes you feel safe. good luck, i know how frustrating it is.

OKAY YOU'RE ADDITIONAL DETAIL OF HIM CHEATING MAKES A WORLD OF DIFFERENCE IN HOW PEOPLE ARE GOING TO RESPOND. YOU'RE HUSBAND HAS CHEATED ON YOU TWICE...NOT ONCE, BUT TWICE! HE'S GOT PROBLEMS AND I WOULDN'T TRUST HIM EITHER. HE SHOULD BE GOING ABOVE AND BEYOND TO MAKE YOU FEEL SAFE SINCE HE HAS CHEATED ON YOU. IT SOUNDS LIKE HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY RESPECT FOR YOU. QUITE FRANKLY HE SOUNDS LIKE AN A**HOLE AND I WOULD START PACKING MY BAGS BEFORE HEART ACHE STRIKES AGAIN.
Okay, you need to take a step back and look at what a rare situation you have. He doesn't flirt back. You can't stop a woman from flirting your husband. If they're determined to make an idiot of themselves and moon over him what he says to them is just fine. As long as he doesn't flirt back, he's cutting them off. Do the same women keep flitring with him? You said strangers right?

If youre husband answers the question, or better yet doesn't answer their questions and completely ignores them, he's doing all he can politely and without causing a scene to stop them from flirting.

That answer to her was the best answer he could have given. SHort and to the point, with a clear message, "No she's getting dressed," meant, "No, i'm not interested. Stop." He is most definately NOT leading them on.

Okay. the key word in your last statement, is "single" and you're a woman. Respectable married men take flirting differently. If they ignore it, or don't say anything, and don't encourage it, they're not leading anyone on. They're just doing just that, ignoring it. Do the women usually stop, or keep going? Or is it a different woman everytime?

Try not to be so hard on your husband. I don't think he's leading anyone on. If he doesn't flirt back, he's not trying to do anything underhanded. It may be his way of telling other women to stop and he's expecting them to know better and back off. If they continue to the point where it's ridiculous and he still does nothing, at least he's doing nothing, instead of doing something bad.

Talk to him...gently about it, if the latter is true. Just ask him, if it would be ok if he just said, "Listen, I'm married." For you, to make you feel better, ask him to just do that one little thing. Tell him you believe him (and mean it), that he isn't doing anything wrong, just to make you feel better. If he loves you i'm sure he'll give it a try.

Good luck!
WOW Gee I'm not sure your going to like my answer but here goes. Your husbands married NOT dead, hell I smile when a woman flirts with my husband, slip my arms through his and wink at her telling her something in a joking way of "Sorry he's all mine" or "Sorry I'm not sharing him" LOL. Don't try to make him feel guilty that he's a hottie. Be proud that he's YOUR'S you know. Now you have to remember that looking and flirting are just in peoples nature and alot of the time it keeps people knowing their still attractive. Don't you feel good when a man takes a look at you or says "damn she's hot" when you walk by? Hell I know I do , when a man openly flirts with me or looks at me my husband just smiles and puts his arm around me. This is your insecurity, he's obviously very much in love with YOU right? So try not to get your feelings hurt, dwelling on this will only lead to problems in your marriage. Right now it's just that you say it hurts your feelings BUT one day soon every time he walks out the door your going to think , well I wonder if a womans flirting and will he cheat on me. That's going to hurt your relationship big time. Good Luck hon a think of it this way, I'm sure you would rather have a man that women want to look at as opposed to a man no woman would look at!!!
I don't think it's wrong for him to be flattered, and that's all it is. Everyone is flattered when people find them attractive. When men flirt with you, don't you feel good about yourself and feel like smiling? I know you say you're not that good looking, but you probably aren't as bad as you think, especially in your husband's eyes. You know that it doesn't go beyond him being flattered by how he doesnt' flirt back. It's not like he tries to act like you don't exist when those women are around, he always acknowledges that you are there, which is important. That is how men subtly tell women that they are off-limits without being in their faces with "I'm married, stop" every time they get a compliment. Now, if you are somewhere and he leaves you to go talk to some woman that was flirting with him, that would be different (not cheating, but hurtful).
Unfortunately what I'm hearing is your insecurities about your looks vs. your husband's. This is really about you, not him. If he's truly a good looking man, he's used to women flirting with him, it's probably been a part of his whole teen and adult life. But the thing to remember - and I know it's hard - is that out of all those women he could have, he chose YOU. Even if you think you are not attractive, HE does and that should make you feel fantastic! If he wasn't attracted to your outward appearance, then something inside shined through and he was attracted to that. Don't nag your husband about this- I'm not sure how long you've been married but again, it seems like you have to work on your self esteem. True, he could shoot down their advances and shout to the world "I'm married" but he probably doesn't feel the need to. And he probably does enjoy the attention to a point, but still, he married you. If he wanted those other women he wouldn't have married you. If this continues to bother you, try fixing yourself up, if you need more hair, buy some, if it's make up, get some. Need a boob job, get it. Seriously, I feel like a little extra help in the beauty department, when needed, never hurts anyone. Good luck.
he may be thinking he does not want to be mean to these lady, the neighbor I am speaking of mostly...which is more important, how you feel, or how these ladies feel...let him know this! obviously your feelings are more important...she does know he's married and she probably knows he won't stop her from flirting at the same time...I am sure he will speak up if he has to eventually...so she keeps doing it...until he does say something, and yes, one thing can lead to another...if he lets it happen...=(...she probably flirts because she also knows he is quite handsome...and knows you are just the regular plain jane...no offense...I am a jane too, lol! Just keep an eye on this lady, This applies to the neighbor...now, So, some of these ladies think he will leave his plain wife for them, these are the ladies who he only sees in public now and then...but, you see, he married you, not them...keep remembering that! I am sure he will remain faithful...but, perhaps you could step in when you are around and let them know you are displeased w/ their comments...! Say, "Hi, I am his wife...and smile and hold his hand =)".
Well sista, i know ur pain. But this REALLY works

My husband is really good looking too and i am not but thats just the point, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. you just need to realise it.

I felt insecure at first but then i tried a different strategy and it works !! when women look at your husband trying holding him and kissing him affectionately, make a display of it, that puts them off totally cos they know the man is taken. and this keeps the sparks flying too (lol). Seriously try it. you're good looking too, i mean if u can land a man as good looking as your husband then its a matter of your confidence and self esteem. Dress up, look and feel sexy, that way u wont feel concious about urself.

And pleeeese let the neighbour take care of her own kids, she made them, she can take care of them, she sounds like trouble. make sure she gets the message if not from your husband then from u.

Smother him with affection the next time she comes round and make excuses, not to take care of her kids.

u owe it to yourself !!!!
What is the man supposed to do, act like a little boy? He cannot control what these women do. He can only control himself. Even if he says he's married, women will flirt with him. It didn't stop your neighbor, and she KNOWS he's married! Women are going to make their comments, whether he's married or not. Most of this is harmless flirting. You take it to another level, when you throw it in your husband's face, as if he's responsible for it.

Your feelings are too easily hurt and it's going to effect your marriage, if you don't stop pressuring this man. You knew he was attractive when you married him. He's very good looking--remember? You said it yourself. Now, you need to trust his judgement and let him handle this. Your husband sounds like he's handling it just fine. When your neighbor flirted with him, he ignored her careless comment and simply said his wife was getting dressed. He's a man, not your child; so stop pressuring him!
Wifey, let me see if I can get you to see it through his eyes. Now, we're going to turn this around and saying it you getting alot of flirts from the guys that see you. A guy saying this to you....oh my, I know it will be a lovely day, heaven open up its doors and send an angel my way. Another guy would said this; I have seen the beauty in a sunrise and sunset, until I saw you there is nothing like the best. Now, I will take the chance that you like these compliments. Since you get these kind of flirt most of the time, its normal for you and you have no interest to response to them. but what if your husband heard these wouldn't he want to fight back? Would the thought of insecure enter your mind? Remember this wifey, guys enjoys compliment too! As long he didn't start it or act interest in the ladies. There is no need to be upset, for you is time to get back flirting with your husband.
Ok, so he has cheated twice... and you took him back...

so what were your expectations of him when you took him back? it sounds like you may have both just agreed to work things out and you didn't demand that he makes sure to stop the flirting.

you should be more demanding. It isn't appropriate to flirt in any case, but the fact that he has cheated on you twice and still allows the flirtings to continue shows that he looooves the attention. Oh, believe me, he KNOWS he is good looking and he KNOWS how much the women are flirting with him. He KNOWS by not saying anything like "I am married" he is leading them on. If women are trying to flirt then he should not be giving them eye contact...

now that the nieghboor has done what she has done, which is CLEARLY flirting with your husband, you should DEMAND that you have nothing to do with her anymore. He should respect you enough to honor those wishes. Why does this woman DESERVE your friendship? She doesn't. You shouldn't help a woman out who is doing something like this.

you need to stand up for yourself more.
get over it..he is married, not dead